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The quality of the life we live, is based upon the learning we derive from our experiences. I know that for myself, it is sometimes easy to feel that 'Life has taught me some tough lessons, and the scars do not heal easily.' When I find myself thinking like this it means that I have fallen into the trap of believing that 'It is ‘only natural’ that an ‘X’ type event or relationship, will lead to a ‘Y’ type response.' At other times it becomes apparent that if I had somehow learned something different from a particular challenging situation, the quality of my life would be much more rewarding. In working with a client struggling with alcoholism, we spent our first session with the client telling me in detail how he had come to live such an unhealthy debilitating life. In short he said: 'Both my parents were alcoholics, and both of them were physically abusive to me. I grew up never knowing what bad thing would happen next. I learned from my parents that the best way to not have to feel the pain and uncertainty of life was to escape into an altered state of alcohol induced euphoria.' When listening to a client tell such a sad story, it is easy to believe that their situation was all but preordained. As fate would have it, a week after beginning to work with this client, I went to a business luncheon to hear an inspirational speaker discuss how we can live our life fully, and succeed in times of hardship. Indeed, the speaker was truly inspirational. When the talk was over I waited around to thank him. After introducing myself and thanking him, I asked him how he had come to lead such an exemplary life. He looked around to make sure no one else was listening and in a low voice he said the following: 'Both my parents were alcoholics, and both of them were physically abusive to me.I grew up never knowing what bad thing would happen next. I learned from my parents that the worst possible way to deal with the pain and uncertainty of life was to escape into an altered state of alcohol induced euphoria. My parents taught me a difficult but very important lesson. I learned from them that staying present in the moment is the only real chance we have for living a fulfilling life.' What a truly great example of embodied spirit the motivational speaker offers us. The quality of our life is not dependent on the circumstances we encounter. The quality of our life is dependent on what we learn from the circumstances we encounter. Perhaps the greatest example of this wisdom is present in the life of Nelson Mandela. He is a man that suffered great pain and hardship, and somehow his suffering seasoned his soul in a way that has led him to be compassionate and caring. In the course of exploring how to live our life more fully we can consider pondering one question over and over again, 'What can I learn from the difficulties I am experiencing, that will actually ADD to the quality of my life?' At the very least we can begin to entertain the fact that: We can derive a wide range of learning from any single circumstance, event, or relationship. When we get the most stuck in life is when we believe that the one thing we did learn is the only thing that can be learned.
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Advice Home Business Technology Online Advertising Motivational Internet Marketing SEO Help Online Games Science Articles Happiness More Articles:1. Journals You Can Keep Journals You Can KeepBy Doreene Clement www.the5yearjournal.com info@the5yearjournal.com Besides your daily feelings, thoughts, and experiences journal, diary or diaries, there are many ideas for journals that you can keep, some are suggested below. Buy a blank book or a notebook with a particular journal topic in mind and keep this book for only that topic. You may decide to keep several kinds of journals at the same time, so remember that you do not have to journal every day.1. Family Journal … 2. Why I Harass People I Like...And Why It Is Good For Business Running a successful business is all about detail and execution.You have to pay attention to the small things. If you aremessing up orders and slow on customer service, people start tonotice. Sales dwindle. Do it all right and word gets around.Your sales grow fast.People pay for quality, even if your price is higher than yourcompetitors.That is why I like to work with good people AND harass them.I'm the guy who makes sure the details aren't forgotten. Thatmakes for a very good product or service… 3. Can One Person Increase Motivation in Another Person? The answer is yes, of course, right? People motivate other people. After all, what about coaches and inspirational speakers? They are paid to motivate other people to do great things. But ask the parent who would like to see a better report card, the boss who is sure to catch several employees off task at any give time, or the spouse who hates picking up someone else’s dirty laundry from the bathroom floor and you will hear that motivating others is IMPOSSIBLE!Consider the two types of motivatio… 4. A Choice to Believe God It was beyond thrilling once I realized the Bible was a How-to Book; a list of Master's tools for overcoming whatever we face in the world. I would see all kinds of wonderful instruction and promises, then look around and not see such faith in others. It is as if people believe Jesus died on the cross and, then, lied about all the rest. 'If in this life only we have hope in Christ, we are of all men most miserable,' I Co. 15:19. And, if we are miserable, we just might have a contracted a contag… |